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Express Your Valentine’s Day Expectations Before February 14th
I have heard so many horror stories when it comes to Valentine’s Day and one of the most common threads I see is that people end the night feeling disappointed or let down. They had this fantastic date night in mind equipped with a rose bouquet and chocolate gifts but instead, they got Redbox and takeout Chinese food.
For some people, Valentine’s Day is just a Hallmark holiday and they could care less. But for others, February 14th is a special day to express love and admiration (whether that is towards friends, family, or lovers).
Regardless of which camp you fall into, it’s important to know the needs and desires of your loved ones. No one wants to feel disappointed on February 14th and no one wants to disappoint someone.
Open communication about your expectations and Valentine’s goals is the only real way to guarantee a good time.
My first Valentine’s Day with my current partner did not go as expected. I thought we had an enjoyable time but Marc did not agree. We had plans to go out to dinner, which we did, but afterward, I had planned to go out with friends.
